WAS / IS this a LOVE??

My Name is Manjunath; i am from Bangalore, Karnataka, India Mine is a love Marriage, I am going to be a father. My Story: I was leading my life like a royal. When I was with my parents, I had 2 Bed rooms, 1 bed room with double cot bed, tv with cable, computer, dvd player, Bero, attached bathroom with western toilet. Another room it was with double cot. I had 2 bike, 1 car, all insurance upto date, Chicken is my favorite dish, minimum once in 3 days I use have. PIZZA HUT once in a week, I had more than 1000 DVD’s which contains 2 to 18 movies in one DVD’s, every weekends i used go out. No credit card OR no loans OR no outside credit After Marriage: My parents didn’t agree for a love marriage, I ran away & got married to her. Status of mine (after marriage): No cot, No TV, No Bero, No car, 1 bike, No computer, single bedroom, No credit card, Rs. 1,00,000/- Loan, Rs. 15000/- Outside Credit, not paid insurance from 2 years, No stopped having chicken cos she wont have, Pizza Hut once in 4 – 6 months (only when says). 100 DVD’s which took from home. Stay at home, wife is not giving company & not leaving me to go alone (this is from after marriage not started recently). My Wife: I never saw her, how she will be with their family & relatives & friends. She used to smoke & drink, which I won’t like, I told her to stop he accepted too, but she didn’t stop it. She call & ask me meet her in 5 mins, I have to travel in car OR bike 5KM in 5 MINs, whenever I ask to meet in morning by 11AM, she used to come late minimum by 1 hour When we were lovers she didn’t gave me any clues & she have a bad behavior, but now (after marriage) we started going to her relatives house, her relatives from children’s to aged peoples will kiss her & she will kiss them, few her cousins call her wife. Dance with them, If I ask her to stop it, she will tell you wont dance with so I am dancing with them (but I will dance with her, even then I have take shit from her) Love story: we used to meet only once in a week or once in two week, that time she was asking me to take her out & I was telling her no, you only decide now, I will decide after marriage cos she know her family & timings so she can plan accordingly & we were going. She used to kiss me & tell can’t you kiss me, & later on I will kiss her. Some time I was the 1st & to say I love you also, same thing I was telling her some many times. Now after marriage: I am begging her, lets go out, lets go for movie, but only answer is wait wait wait, after waiting it will be night & go to sleep, that’s all nothing else, if I ask her to if you not interested then tell me, I will only go & come, for that also she will start all with her angriness. Actually I don’t remember when she told me last I LOVE U, not even for VALENTINES DAY and KISS also 27th March 2010 She gave me the last kiss, that’s all. i ask’d her to come out with me for few place & few things for me, she is not ready to coming out with me, she is had gone out with her cousin y'day,below is the details & pending from years Shiva temple – 3 years Koti Lings – 2 years Manchinabeille Dam – 1 Year Mysore – 1 year Art of living – 1 year Telitoscope (Gift for me) – 1 year Key Chain (Gift for me) – 1 year TD Dam – 1 ½ years & so on…… Now we are with her parents (my parents still not agreed), as she is pregnant, y’day I was little upset & ask’d her, can we talk, I told her I am not feeling good by staying here from so many days & your sisters & dad is not talking & not giving respect to me & few more like that, for that she start of angriness She not coming out, not giving time to share my feelings, not preparing food which I ask her, no kisses, no hugs, no I love u, no greeting, no gifts, nothing at all. Can I have a solution for this. ::( ☆At Times Like This☆ Thanks for the response & blessings, but she not ready to talk also, if i ask OR tells her anything she will gets angry, thats all nothing else, only angry on ME. Now i don't have anyone, not even parents & relatives. this is just a few problem in my life, with her, there are so many

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If she wont do anything with you or tell you she loves you why stay? so she pregnant you do not have to be with her. It sounds to me like she has no interest in you go find some who does!!!!!!

Wow, A lot of info. I don't think anyone can say whether it was or is love. You know how you feel and clearly you made some sacrifices to be with her. I think that you guys need to talk and try and figure out what attracted to each other in the first place. You obviously expect to be marrying for love, you can't expect that to be easy. You got a baby on the way, that is a huge blessing, and so many kids in North America grow up with a single parent. Try and work things out with your wife, I think that you should try to show her love and respect even when she isn't loving or respectful back. You will at least have exhausted every option. Best of wishes, I'll be praying for you.

Love was! Love is!!Love will be!!! But Arranged marriage by parents are better than Love marrage.I guessed as the 80% of arranged marriages are successful but 80% of love marriage are failure also! Mind it!

doesn't sound like love to me...at least not from her side...have u thought about a divorce? or just telling her to live with you in your own place...??? you should really get her to understand what a marriage means and what all responsibilities come with it...parteners need to give each other emotional as well as physical support... running away from each other is never a solution.

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